By A.C. Rose
As the ‘Hot Romance’ columnist for the Three Tomatoes and an author of erotic romance books, including the forthcoming Stay After Class, I was asked to share my thoughts on why watching adult videos together can be helpful.
1. Men burn up like a match but women heat up like an iron. Adult films can stir the sex hormones and be arousing. While men can generally achieve arousal and orgasm within a few minutes, women need more time to warm up and a good, sexy movie can help get her there.
2. They are training videos. Men and women often do have different tastes in films. We have all heard that women love stories and men love pictures and action. So find movies that appeal to couples, like the films of my friend, the late Candida Royalle. She included hot scenes with love stories and often used real couples as actors.
3.It is fun get aroused together. We all have fantasies and desires, but many people want to experience them from the safety of their own bedroom, with our significant other. Adult films give us a chance to watch people act out sexual scenes that are arousing, and to partake in the taboo together. Even if a couple does not want to act out what they see on the screen, they can use the erotic energy to be a little hotter, or naughtier, together.
4. Sex films can open the conversation. This culture likes to think that men have dirtier minds than women, but you would be surprised. I know from running a number of fan pages on Facebook and from writing erotic novels that women like to fantasize about hot, sizzling sex and many women love the idea of being ‘taken’ by a hot alpha male. So this may not being exactly how your mate comes across, but watching a film that demonstrates a hot female fantasy can get a couple talking… and then kissing… and then… well, you know.
5. It’s only a movie. An erotic film that helps a couple bring some heat into their bedroom can be very positive. And it can help couples learn more about each other’s tastes and secret passions and fantasies. At the end of the day, it’s a movie. A kissing and sex movie. An orgasm movie. And much better for your love life than watching a thriller, car chase, or violence before bed.